14 May 08 Domestic Violence Awareness

My friend skywindows started to write something about domestic violence which always happened around us, especially at home (The place which would be very safe to everybody).What do you can do when the home is a place of war/violence?

For me, I really do wish to see a world with full of violence issue, house violence is the most happening now a day. So frequent we can read about the news regarding “husband bitting wife, husband torture the wife, step-father raped step-daughter” and etc… (more…)

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14 May 08 Love is …

People said “Love is beautiful“… yeah… it is beautiful when it start, in-process, but ugly when it come to the end. So, can we re-correct it to “Love is ugly“? (more…)

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14 May 08 Drunk = Forget?

Drunk —adj. 1 lacking control from drinking alcohol. 2 (often foll. by with) overcome with joy, success, power, etc. —n. person who is drunk, esp. habitually. [past part. of *drink]

Forget v. (forgetting; past forgot; past part. forgotten or US forgot) 1 (often foll. by about) lose remembrance of; not remember. 2 neglect or overlook. 3 cease to think of.  forget oneself 1 act without dignity. 2 act selflessly.  forgettable adj. [Old English]

Based on Oxford dictionary we have the both words meaning as above.

But it doesn’t show equal to each other. I don’t think have any formula can show the equation.

Sometime, people drink because they’re happy. But most of the time, people tend to drunk themselves to forget something during the sad moment. They just think, they won’t think about the problem when they’re drunk. They don’t know that when they’re drunk, they might put themselves into a very dangerous situation (especially for girl)… World today is dangerous. Normally, we drink and drink till drunk, we’ll temporary forget all the problem. but when we wake up from drunk, our head will like wanna explode (headache…), and all the problem come back instantly. We felt 2x depress compare to last night, then we drink again to forget it… keep on repeating the same activity until the end (someone wake us up)…

For my opinion, Drink liquor to forget problem/to settle problem is not a wise way. It only add-on problem to you. Imagine if you done something wrong after you had drunk, your life will be ruined. And you’ll feel guilty on what you had done. Maybe you will feel sorry for what you had done.

So, why drink liquor to make yourself suffer?

For problem solving, the best way is get advice from others (friends, colleague, teacher or relatives)… If they can’t give you any comment/advice, try to ask your parent. In this world, only our parent will answer our question seriously. Why? Because they’re the one who bring you to this world, their love toward you is much much more compare to others. They will try their ever best to solve your problem to make sure your life is happy.

So, friend, next time when you faced problem, put drink liquor as a last option for yourself, ok?
[Transferred from Life beside the edge]

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14 May 08 Love, Sex, Friend

We can have love other people without considering other things, such like age, their appearance (their looks), their back-ground, their education level, etc…<!–more–>We love them by what they’re. We love them at the moment we found love, no matter what had happened previously and no matter what will happen later… No question needed, just love.

My friend, he love a women for few years and he broke up with her lately. He say he love her very very much. I can feel it from what he told me past few days. The only thing that I can say to him is “there isn’t a need to be sad, important thing is, when the moment you two be together, both of you truthly love each other, then no regret” People meet with new friend from time to time, it is normal.

My another friend (female) ask me that her boyfriend make love with her, and she is not sure that the boy love her or not? She think the boy love her. I only say “for male, they make love with female without considering love or don’t” Is difficult to put this as a standard of “love”. SEX activities can be carry out without love effect. So, do not think that a boy willing to have sex with you is because he love you.

When there is love and sex in place, I think there is no “friend” anymore… Think about it!

[Transferred from Life beside the edge]

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