27 Jun 08 When communication failed

I found this in a forwarded email from friend. It is so true about life in a society. Remember that I shared with my Chinese’s blog fans about a person, my colleague, my superior who seem to be very hard to stay close with him. I would like to talk about him at here.

Many people might said that Alan is lucky to work for the MNC (Multi Nation Company), with good employee’s benefit, salary, etc. Firstly, my salary is not good at all, many of SMI (Small and Medium Industrial) employees earn better than me. As for the employee’s benefit, I can say here is better than others. All I can say is working in big company like in the middle of the sea~

You never know when you will sink into the sea. Every words, every statement you make actually need more time to consider before come out from your mouth. Voice out the statement maybe only need about 5sec but time to consider the content of the statement take you for few minutes. Kinda tiring~

For some people, they just can’t communicate with others, their mind operate in different way around. Just don’t know how to communicate with them~

Imagine the condition below and how you react?

:you should do this… then you may do this, and so on you just follow this and this… (Good Explaination)
:Ok, understood… ( [OK] means I understand)
:Fine, If you says you know, then I would not repeat this anymore. ( WTF, he thought I provoke him and act smart)

What shall you do if you faced the same situation? For me, I just keep my mouth shut from that second onwards.

I can not find a correct path/method to start a normal conversation with him, same happened to my other colleague which is same department with me.

I once talk with him superior, his superior told me to try to understand him and then I will find a good/proper way to communicate with him. I think that is very true for everyone, we need to know each other well before we start deep conversation. But the problem is, I do not wish to understand him either… I think I’m bad person after all.

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