Life beside the edge

Early in that Morning I wake up and prepare myself to go for Wei Yi and Akemi’s wedding ceremony at SGM Kaikan, Cheras (11am~12:30pm). I bet many people attended Soka Gakkai wedding ceremony before this, but for Akemi one is much more special~ It is because the both of them will be wearing Kimono, and the ceremony will be held in Japanese Style. Maybe you might wonder why they held their wedding ceremony in japanese style, it is because Akemi-san is Nihon jin desu, her full name is Akemi Nakatomi.

So many people come to share the happiness with them~

In front of everyone, they sign the marriage settlement~ and promise they will take care each other for the lifetime~

Wei Yi and Akemi requested to give some speech, both of them cried while talking about the constraint they faced during the wedding preparation. Happy they overcome all the obstracle together~

Academy P Member sangs a LOVE SONG for the lucky couple. Title “Because of LOVE” (In chinese pinyin – YIN WEI AI), this song suit for the day very well. I like this songs very much~

All the University Putra Malaysia friends, Academy P comrade took the photo togther with the lucky couple~

Finally, Agnes and I take photo with Wei Yi and Akemi. Cheer~

Last but not least, We hope Wei Yi and Akemi can help/support each other in the path of life. All the best~

Communication is important in our daily life, we communicate with many people in a day, no matter you speak, you type in Messenger or email, they are ways for us to communicate~ Skill of communication is important, many people spend money and time to go for communication skills upgrading programs. A person who can talk well, people will listen to him, no matter what he talk/informs is correct or not. A person who can’t talk well, he might face many problem while communicate with people, and he also can’t deliver his own message to others~

It is difficult to become a person who can talk/speak well. In Chinese there is a old-time saying sound like this…

“You talk human language when you met with Human, and Talk ghost language when you mess with ghost”

It is so true, we need to know everybody interest before talk with them, this will ease yourself, and avoid to create conflict between you and the listener.

For eg. If you are talking with a person who always think himself is the best of all, you shouldn’t say something like…
“I think I can use shorter time to finish this than you~” or “I don’t think your ideas is works…”
They will hate you for saying this.

Some people might think if they just telling the truth and not lie will be fine. THAT’S WRONG!! Some people do not like to hear the truth, they love people lie to them. You might wonder how come this kind of people do not like people to be honest to them? It is easy, they love people tell them all the good thing, only the good thing will cheer them up, they hate people tell them the truth, they hate to know they are weak in something. Act honest in front of these people will destroy yourself. Read the rest of this entry »