Communication is important in our daily life, we communicate with many people in a day, no matter you speak, you type in Messenger or email, they are ways for us to communicate~ Skill of communication is important, many people spend money and time to go for communication skills upgrading programs. A person who can talk well, people will listen to him, no matter what he talk/informs is correct or not. A person who can’t talk well, he might face many problem while communicate with people, and he also can’t deliver his own message to others~

It is difficult to become a person who can talk/speak well. In Chinese there is a old-time saying sound like this…

“You talk human language when you met with Human, and Talk ghost language when you mess with ghost”

It is so true, we need to know everybody interest before talk with them, this will ease yourself, and avoid to create conflict between you and the listener.

For eg. If you are talking with a person who always think himself is the best of all, you shouldn’t say something like…
“I think I can use shorter time to finish this than you~” or “I don’t think your ideas is works…”
They will hate you for saying this.

Some people might think if they just telling the truth and not lie will be fine. THAT’S WRONG!! Some people do not like to hear the truth, they love people lie to them. You might wonder how come this kind of people do not like people to be honest to them? It is easy, they love people tell them all the good thing, only the good thing will cheer them up, they hate people tell them the truth, they hate to know they are weak in something. Act honest in front of these people will destroy yourself.

Example:
In a meeting when everyone talk about some issues which appeared few days, everybody knew this issue from email, because everyone is in the loop. Suddenly, a manager ask “What is this issue all about?” (Seemingly he do not read this email all this while, or he skip it) What do you think he would like to listen from others?

1. He would like someone explain the issue to him again.
2. He wish someone might says “Oops, your name maybe missed include in the loop…”

But he hate to listen to below honest answer from anyone…

1. “Oh, it is from XXXX’s email few days ago~”
2. “I think you should know this, I see your name in the email loop too.”
3. “Everyone is discuss about this issue these few days~
(Why he hate to listen the about statement?)

If I’m the manager, I think I also hate to have someone pointed at me and say “Is your problem for not read the email~”

Communication skill is important, without this skill lead to communication breakdown, then create problem~