Life beside the edge

Reputation: It is a good name or a good will, can attained it by many actions but may lost by just one…

(I saw it on colleague’s table calendar)

It is true, we hardly can gain reputation, it means good name from others, how people rated us. Reputation can be collapse by just one silly stupid action. No matter how many good things you had done, when you make a mistake, just one, everything you’d gained will be vanished.

Is cruel, that why people rather died to protect their good name, their pride. Will you? Or do you know how people rated you?

Remembering a person did told me “Someone said he knew nobody like him, but he can confirm that nobody hate him, how about you?” Think about it. In this world maybe many people passing by, how many of them like you, vice versa. And how many of them hate you to dead?

Sometime we might faced some problem and we think that would be our worst case in life. Do you know that is the time for us to sit down quietly, listen to the surrounding, observe, and you will see who is angel and who is the demon.

You maybe consider everyone who surrounding you are angel, but when problem strike you, their face turn into demon in just split second. Maybe that the time you can see their true color. I faced this situation and I got realize that some surrounding people, things were so fake, so unreal, make me fed up.

But, I wish to say thank you to “Bad time / Worst time”, because without it, I can’t even sense I actually live among all faker, pretender. Now, I can identify which is the best way for me, for us, for everyone. Dislike me and you may go, those who stay, they knew the reason, I knew, we knew.

In this 2009 Christmas Eve, I would like to refresh my mind, I cast my wishes to Santa, “I would like to have a simple happy healthy 2010, thanks” << this would be my best present of Christmas.

To everyone who read this,

Merry Christmas, may all your dreams come true!!

I think people might be interested on “if everyone refuse to make love, then how?” rather than “If everyone refuse to do their job, then how?”…

Now in the office, every single individual started to push around their work to others, and this going on and on… Wondering who are the one who do it actually?

Sometimes people thinks too much communication lead to conflict. But they never know the most dangerous situation is Silent, totally quiet~

B.O.S.S., can be your superior or the person who pay salary to yours works.

Just wish to share,

“Boss is always your boss no matter how, they can never be your friend, please remember!”