13 Dec 08 Quotes from Calendar

Just now walk pass my Colleague Table, found that her Calendar have many quotes on it. Read thru them, they’re so meaningful, I think need to let more people know about them…

Failures are divided into 2 groups: those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought. - By John Charles Salak

So true, to those who did and never thought, they deserve it. For those who always have many big ideas in their mind, just ideas and lots of talking, normally they do not try to make it real, practice it. I hate this kind of person, Just say and no action.

Do not wait for the extraordinary circumstances to do good, try to use ordinary situations. - By Jean Paul Richer

People always think “When I’m rich, I will helps people”, why need to wait? To help other who need help doesn’t need to wait until we’re rich, every single one of us capable to help other person in any ways.

How we think shows through in how we act. Attitudes are mirrors of the mind. They reflect thinking. - By David Joseph Schwartz

Attitude is the mirror of mind, I says “Our Children is the mirror of us”. Whatever we do, they follows 100%.

Every man is the artitect of his own fortune - By Sallust

We have to build our own fortune by ourselves not others

Life belongs to the living, and he who lives must be prepared for changes - By Goethe

I love this quote very much, everyone of us need to be prepare to faced changes every single second. Every good thing and bad thing happens in split second.

It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow. - By Robert H.Goddard

Live for today, breath for our self.

To be persuasive, we must be believable. To be believable, we must be credible. To be credible, we must be truthful. - By Edward R. Murrow

In Chinese saying~ Everything started from our self, then only to others. From our self then move on to our family, then only we can consider to change/control country.

It takes a great deal of elevation of thought to produce a very little elevation of life. - By Ralph Waldo Emerson

Even though just little changes need great effort for it.

Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune;but great mind rise above them. - By Washington Irving

Great mind people do great thing, their vision above others.

Happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely upon what you think. - By Dale Carnegie

Yesterday Just watched a Hong Kong Series, there is a sentence sound like this… Wealth for a person doesn’t depend on how much money he had, is depends on how many friend and family member beside him.

Energy and Persistence conquer all things. - By Benjamin Franklin

So true… Without both, nothing can be done.

Our thought is the key which unlocks the doors of the world. - By Samuel McChord Crothers

Do you unlock the world of yours?

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13 Dec 08 CURIOSITY

Curiosity helps a lots in many ways but it kills a person sometime - (DSvT 1980 ~ )

When a person eagerly to know the truth, it helps him learn more new item along the way of seeking truth… It sound like Sylar in Heroes, he wish to know more about the super-power, he start to ask, to help Mohinder’s Father, then when there isn’t enough to feed his hunger of desire to know, he start to kill…

All start from Curiosity… When a person can control it well, it brings all the good result to him, but if it come into him in huge amount, it will fill him up and make him hunger for information, maybe it would make him become a killer, but it do make him become a “Question Man”… He will always have lots of question to ask, He is getting more and more information but he always feel not enough, because he wish to know more. He capable to see everything in their most fundamental ways and understand all the changes of them, and he always wish to prove he is right on his theory.

At this point, I think Sylar in Heroes represented the human natural - CURIOSITY.

CURIOSITY beneath in every one of us, some turn out and practice in life, they learn more, they move on and they might become better person. Some people do not awake this beneath ability and they just refuse to know more, refuse to learn, refuse to explore themselves to new things, they may not be a better person in our society, but they must be happiest person. It is because when great ability comes with great responsibilities (Headache, problem or trouble). Curiosity may help you or destroy you at the same time; it is a give and take situation, to equip a great ability you need to sacrifice something at the same time. Will you?

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07 Oct 08 Me and myself

Sometime I asked myself, what kind of big achievement I had achieved so far? I tried my best to accomplish every single little things in my life till now, I tried my ever best to become a person who other can rely on. But there always someone who come to disturb our mind, come to tell us that we are not good enough. I used to think that is some Devil/Satan who hanging around us whispering into our ears, I’m wrong.

A real person come in front me and told me that I am weak.

Am I weak? the answer is NO.

I’m not weak, he is the one who are weak and envy others who can gained better. I’m not sure why he have to disturb other who work hard for themselves, he is just a person who do not plan for himself, work hard, always blame others for ignore him. I saw many people tried to help him, tried to lift him up, but he choose to sink into SIN, Laziness, world of Darkness. I can not do anything on his life, even though in Buddhist teaching, we shall not let go anyone one of our friend, or family member. I do try many way to communicate with him, but failed. I found I was talking to a WALL, a WALL written “I do not care about how you all think about me..”

Fine, that is his life, he should responsible for it, not me, and not others. Why he can’t just stay aside and keep quiet? Why he need to make someone I care suffering? Does he feel happier like this?

I can not find the answer for this. I just tell myself, no matter what he will do, I will protect from being hurt by him. I will shout at him when I needed “You, Just leave her alone, and f*k off~“

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07 Oct 08 Prostitution, Do you like it?

Ideas come from the Plurk Topic started by me and Anna. Click here

Anna wonder why some guys visit prostitute when they know pretty well it might cost them their life…

B|ack_CuRRanT asks if your bf like to visit prostitute and enjoys, can you pretend don’t know… or you’re ok with it~

Why some guys love this kind of activities? They put their life in risk, they do not scare of STD?

I have some friend who like this kind of activities, while we are doing our degree at SHU, I found some of them even have the membership card of some clubs or …. When I stayed at Sheffield, in my mind all fill up with studies and traveling, everyday my friend and I work hard on our assignment or testing or research, after that, we plan out our tour schedule and place. I do not have any extra time for such “NICE” place… Some more at that time I need to cook for myself every morning and night.

Go to such a place will put ourselves in risk, and some will affected to our family member too. Such place is not good, it is expensive, it lead you enter to the world of Devil and Satan. You will addicted to it once you tried it, so better do not think about it, never. I saw many family suffer due to their father struggling on the HIV disease, not only their father struggling of sickness, but their family feel ashamed in front of relatives and friend. Then become children refuse to go back to school, they start to blame their family, then created many social problem~

As a man/boy, you love your family/wife/partner, please do not involved yourself in any activities which can make them suffer. Please think twice before you take any action, or do not think at all on all these stupid stuff~

Friend, do you have friend addicted in such kind of activities? Please share~

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