04 Nov 08 What is LOVE?

To love someone is easy, to be loved by someone also easy… to take back your love is impossible~

To take care someone need your heart, to destroy someone still need your heart too…

To like someone is easy, to love someone need effort, to hurt someone, is anytime…

LOVE is something make you become brave to make changes, it also mis-lead you to become brave to wipe off people’s dream/love~

All took from my plurk~

Friend, what meaning of LOVE in your mind? 2 person like each other then will appears LOVE? So simple like that?

No. LOVE isn’t simple like that~

LOVE gave you strange/momentum to move forwards, to protect the person you loved. LOVE make you feel happy whenever you see the person, not matter day or night. LOVE trains you become better man and make you become her best man in this whole life. LOVE is everything in you, just like oxygen for you, without it, you died.

On the other hand…

LOVE make you become brave to do bad thing, such like betrays your partner. LOVE make you think many funny/evil ideas to lie, to get what you desire to get. LOVE make you a clever person who can speak all the flower words to create fantasy imagination images for your partner, it equip you the best method to flirt. LOVE took all the good thing in you, all left to you is desire. LOVE make you become desperate person, you never feel enough even you already have many.

LOVE lift you up, LOVE can crush you into piece in no time…

Friend, don’t think LOVE is just a simple 4 alphabet, it combine everything, happiness, sadness, jealousy, desire, heaven and hell. Like people always says, A step in heaven, wrong step in hell then~

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07 Oct 08 Me and myself

Sometime I asked myself, what kind of big achievement I had achieved so far? I tried my best to accomplish every single little things in my life till now, I tried my ever best to become a person who other can rely on. But there always someone who come to disturb our mind, come to tell us that we are not good enough. I used to think that is some Devil/Satan who hanging around us whispering into our ears, I’m wrong.

A real person come in front me and told me that I am weak.

Am I weak? the answer is NO.

I’m not weak, he is the one who are weak and envy others who can gained better. I’m not sure why he have to disturb other who work hard for themselves, he is just a person who do not plan for himself, work hard, always blame others for ignore him. I saw many people tried to help him, tried to lift him up, but he choose to sink into SIN, Laziness, world of Darkness. I can not do anything on his life, even though in Buddhist teaching, we shall not let go anyone one of our friend, or family member. I do try many way to communicate with him, but failed. I found I was talking to a WALL, a WALL written “I do not care about how you all think about me..”

Fine, that is his life, he should responsible for it, not me, and not others. Why he can’t just stay aside and keep quiet? Why he need to make someone I care suffering? Does he feel happier like this?

I can not find the answer for this. I just tell myself, no matter what he will do, I will protect from being hurt by him. I will shout at him when I needed “You, Just leave her alone, and f*k off~“

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07 Oct 08 Prostitution, Do you like it?

Ideas come from the Plurk Topic started by me and Anna. Click here

Anna wonder why some guys visit prostitute when they know pretty well it might cost them their life…

B|ack_CuRRanT asks if your bf like to visit prostitute and enjoys, can you pretend don’t know… or you’re ok with it~

Why some guys love this kind of activities? They put their life in risk, they do not scare of STD?

I have some friend who like this kind of activities, while we are doing our degree at SHU, I found some of them even have the membership card of some clubs or …. When I stayed at Sheffield, in my mind all fill up with studies and traveling, everyday my friend and I work hard on our assignment or testing or research, after that, we plan out our tour schedule and place. I do not have any extra time for such “NICE” place… Some more at that time I need to cook for myself every morning and night.

Go to such a place will put ourselves in risk, and some will affected to our family member too. Such place is not good, it is expensive, it lead you enter to the world of Devil and Satan. You will addicted to it once you tried it, so better do not think about it, never. I saw many family suffer due to their father struggling on the HIV disease, not only their father struggling of sickness, but their family feel ashamed in front of relatives and friend. Then become children refuse to go back to school, they start to blame their family, then created many social problem~

As a man/boy, you love your family/wife/partner, please do not involved yourself in any activities which can make them suffer. Please think twice before you take any action, or do not think at all on all these stupid stuff~

Friend, do you have friend addicted in such kind of activities? Please share~

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07 Oct 08 Upgrade from Boyfriend to Husband

[Got this from forwarded email]

I 1st read this joke few years ago, I still found it brought out the ideas of Husband and Wife brilliantly~ It is much differ between husband and boy friend, girl friend and wife. Do not feel shock when you found that your husband act different after marriage, it is normal, because you just upgrade your boyfriend program to husband 1.0.

Dear IT Support,

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a slow down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower, gifts and jewellery applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 un-installed many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, but installed undesirable programs such as Formula One 5.0, NBA 3.0 and World Cup 2.0.

And now Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I’ve tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail.

What can I do?

Signed,
Desperate Housewife

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